Sunday, May 23, 2010

April showers... May snows

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Not nice - Really, I will miss my tree. It was a beautiful tree. It kept us cool in the summer and shielded us from pesky neighbors. I feel very exposed. This is why it is not supposed to snow on May 22. Oh thanks, Josh for the ginormous help starting the clean up.

My Angel...


The rockin smore shake

"not smiling"
Hunter is still recovering from his surgery he had a few weeks ago. I am always in awe by this spirit and his strength. He is just amazing both physically and spiritually. When I walk into recovery after he has a surgery I always cry. He looks at me the same way he looked at me when he was 3 months old. The moment in the recovery room, after his initial repair, when Hunter was 3 months old, was the moment I bonded with him. It was the moment I looked at him and realized that everything really was going to be okay. I feel lucky I get to relive that moment between he and I. This surgery was similar to the one we did at pcmc a few years ago and unfortunately failed. It was a bone graft of the cleft maxilla. Bone marrow was grafted from his hip and transplanted into the clefts on both sides of the premaxilla. The point of this procedure is to provide support for unerupted teeth and teeth next to the cleft, to support for the lip and nose and to improve symmetry, to form a continuous upper gum, creating a more natural appearance, and to improve the stability of premaxilla. Dr. Russ also decided to reposition (or break and reset) the premaxilla for a more contoured look. We have been preparing for this surgery with orthodontics for about 16 months. So we were ready. While in pre-op we had to fill out all new paperwork. This is the first time we had done a surgery locally so we had to redo paperwork. It was actually quite interesting. Bruce and I filled out his history and we were not able to completely fill out the section titled "previous surgeries". One, because there was not enough room. But that really was not the reason. We could not (and still can't) remember how many he has had. Our answer was 9ish. Nine times in 10 years he has been put to sleep to have surgeries, almost always more than one procedure at a time. What an amazing kid. The surgery went well. It was about three and a half hours of time and then recovery. Dr. G was able to accomplish all he set out to. The recovery for the surgery this time has been a total bugger though. Dr. Griffiths is a lot more strict than Primary Children's is on the restrictions (which is fine, we want it to work this time.) His requests were liquids (anything in a blender that can slide out of a cup) no spoons, straws, ect. Low sugar, since we can not brush the upper teeth - Mouthwash - for 3 weeks. When Bruce, Dr. G, and I were talking after the surgery he talked about the repositioning of the premaxilla. Because this area of his mouth has been operated on so many times, he was not able to stabilize the area the way he had plan on for fear low blood flow to the area. So the premaxilla was stabilized with a small pin. So one more restriction. We need to keep sweet, funny, smiley Hunter from smiling for 3 weeks so that the pressure does not move the premaxilla. It may sound like a nuisance or even funny, however it makes total sense to me and better yet Hunter understands the reasoning behind it. Only one more week. Then I think we graduate to soft foods and maybe some giggling :). Hunter - you are awesome and you teach me more than I ever thought I would learn.

For fun -




I have lost tons of photos (Ellis likes to take the camera and take pictures)- here are some of the things we have been up to.


Braden has been up to..... Homework, Football, and Scouts.

Hunter started guitar in Jan. He has a great talent. He totally rocks.

Ellis - Being 3 and being like his brothers

Happy Birthday... EVERYBODY


Birthday season is past - we all had good but busy birthdays.

March 17th. Happy Birthday Braden - My young man is 12. He is now in YM and a deacon. Congrats Bray on your choices.

March 29 - Happy Birthday Bruce - He was all alone on his b-day. We did celebrate in Idaho Falls a few days before with carrot cake.

April 13 - Happy Birthday Hunter - Hunter turned 10. He requested awesome strawberry lemonade cake and we went out for all you can eat sushi.

April 22 - Happy Birthday Ellis - Eli had a great birthday. He finished his 3rd year of life. Some of my favorite words "E" says - berry (very) my favorite is when something is berry, berry great. Joke (jerk) ex. "Mom..... Braden is being a joke. " (I will have to add more when my brain in functioning properly. There are actually lots. )

April 30 - Happy Birthday Me - Yeah I am old and feel it. I think I cried to my Dad on the phone. I did not make a cake however Judy and Marsha brought me b-day treats. Overall a fine birthday. Bruce watched Coco before Chanel with me (with subtitles). He is the best.